What can you do?

I have a wonderful heart and I am very kind and generous. Sometimes when I talk with people  at times I judge that person or put my 2 cent in when I am not in that person shoes. I could never imagine being in a place where some people are. I had many reality checks in life and I told myself you cannot beat yourself up for doing all you can. Sometimes you want to live the person life for them and make their life different and change their direction. However you can’t change people life they have to change their self. Times are hard life is unfair some people let life get the best of them.

Some people have close mind and stuck in their own ways to ever breathe change. Some are sacred of changing because they will be put out their comfort zone. Why? People have probably taking advice of others that is trying to help and them. People that need the help you are remaining in the same place. Things change and don’t let people tell you should be what you said in high school and you are 30 now. You can be and do whatever your purpose is. Sometimes people go to school for a nurse and then later on be a Doctor. Things change you don’t have to be stuck and remain at the same place.

What can you do? People cannot relate to you, because when people are doing badly, they do not what to hear your success. You try so hard to be there because you see the potential in them; however the question is do they see the same you see.  It’s easy for people to move on HYPE when the HYPE stops the movement stop. I learn to help people who are wanted and pleading to help their self. Also, People who will work give their all and will not stop when they don’t see any Movement.

Great Doers...Great Movement... No progress Doers are still thinking and moving no matter what...

Cares of Others

I care for many people that don't care about their life and a few that do. It hurts me to see people that can have so much more but they settle to be in pain or the same because a lot of time is CHANGE!! Why are we so afraid of change. I went to school to be a Cosmotologist (Hairstylists) but instead I work for a Big Health Insurance company. What of the odds of me going to school all those years for hair and to be here in a Medical field.

Life will take you to your purpose without you knowing. You think its just something passing through but you find out you are walking to your Destiny. Do I complain and Question it what human person wouldn't but I roll what life brings.

Some people would just give up and live like they have nothing to live for but what the pass season brought. You have to have multiple talents and knowledge on all things.So when life brings you Lemon you make lemon margarine pie. Learn and listened to new things that will bring life to your walk.

People stay at the place their at because they feel that they do not deserve to be happy to live a life of PEACE or if there is PEACE you need to make Drama. When will we recognized the Truth and act on it. Being stress and complain is still not changing nothing in your life but your Health. Doers have and they look beyond the negative and mess up situation they have and keep it moving.

Those who care for people that have excuses for every piece of Truth you give them leave it alone. All it will do is put there cares into your purpose.I’m not saying stop loving them nobody is perfect. Once upon of time we were that person down and stress could not see any good in nothing we did. Wanted to just Die and maybe that will erase the pain.

Not thinking about how our love ones felt we will drink get High! Whatever it took for us to forget the pain we was feeling. One day I could not go any lower then I was feeling. I was going down a pity party under depression so bad where you isolate yourself from people and the people you really need to get rid of.

I had to come to a place where I can think clearly and so much pray and to wanted a change and I did a 360 nobody knew what happen. If this change would have never took place I would have miss a lot of opportunities and people who love me. I had to make a decision for change nobody else but me. If someone don't want to change all it will do to you will take all the energy you need for your purpose. Be careful some battles you can avoid and some you make.You cant help those who do not want to help themselves. To much energy that you will waste. Choose PEACE over wasted energy.

I'm Coming Out

The life you once had was great you smile and thought nothing can change. You really didn’t deserve what you you had thought all the things you had you got it on your own. Times when life was good and no worries when you had it made. The car, house, money, friends and family. Now when a brick hit you in your life you are lost your house repo your car gone. Lost your job and the friends you thought was your friends only to find out they was only there when your things was there. Family judging you and saying what they think you should or could have gone and done. What you need and nobody has ever open there arms for you just love to see you down. Coming out is an awesome thing in someone's life who have fought for so long to see what the end will look like. Life is not fair and Life does not care who or what it destroys on your fighting journey. Coming out is when you have suffer and nobody never could tell or making things work never having enough of. Suffering in pain thinking you are not going to make it being down so long in your circumstances and believing every punch it bring. You see no way out depress, bitter, ignorant to all possibilities of taking your life back. People talking about you and you wish you can just make things go away. There goes the negative thoughts and not thinking clearly where there depression follows nothing good behind it. Sometimes you think about killing yourself just maybe my life would be easier and make everybody happy. Always worried about what people say embarrass so you isolate yourself. When are you going to realize that you have to want it bad enough where no matter what hit you will still move and push for what is right. You have to work hard and push hard nothing come easy and nothing come quick. If it does I guarantee you didn’t work hard for it life have challenges and pain but in all life lesson comes VICTORY!! It’s there but at times we get caught up in our mess we lose focus on the right things. We see things so much for what it is and not for what it can be at times you will want to give up and just go back to the comfort zone and just except that life. Everybody has a Purpose in life and dreams so every day you should reach for the skies. It takes Faith and hard work doors cannot be open if you want DO!! Stop reacting on how things around you, and listening to negative people. I believe in God and he is almighty and he never lies. At times God is testing us to see how much Faith we really have he what to see it not just hear it on Sunday morning. Have you ever thought a situation you was going through was going one way and it go the exact opposite. When it goes left sometimes I like to be right behind it. Example: You are saving and you have all your bills together you know when this come out and all of a sudden one of your cars break down and it cost $200 to get parts and $100 for labor that’s $300 that’s coming out of your savings and if you are just getting by you are broke now what? Everything works for our good at all time God sees and God hears and he has a plan for everything. Trust and believe and stay positive do not let the Devil WIN!! By making you think your are through in life just remember if you will DO!! God will open and pour you out a blessing you haven’t seen or heard. But you have to be a DOER!!! Faith without works is dead…

Hardships

In times hardship we think will things look good ever in life. Or will they stay bad every time you think you are ahead you taking 50 steps back. What do you do give up or keep moving forward with a busted lip and feet hurting?

The mind can be so strong at times and when you listen to the stinking thinking we get discourage. The mind is a battlefield and we have to learn how to control it. But we wonder why it’s not as easy as people say. The mind can mess a focus person up and on there straight path they making all kinds of turns. It’s like you are so focus one minute and then next minute you fall so behind you have to remind yourself what are your goals in life.

We let our minds get to us all the time I think it’s good to have your goals always in front of you and remind you. So when you wake for that job you absolutely don’t want to be. You can perceive your situation differently like everybody have a purpose and my journey my seasons is here at this job until God move me.

It’s all ways the best way to wait on the Lord because I know times we have to have things now and we get impatience. But have you ever got impatience did things yourself and miss your season and you are still regretting that you would have waiting on the Lord.

We have to say to our self every day I have some type of purpose in life no matter what my circumstances say no matter what my family say no matter what my bills say I have a purpose. If you believe in Jesus and have Faith in him he will never leave you or forsake you. He will always put you in a place you don’t understand and times we try so hard to figure out what it is the today, what is the tomorrow or if I would have done this I would be. God what us to trust in him and live life in obedience.

Don’t get lost in your situation it only a test of Faith in times he test us to see where we stand with him. To see if we really trust him and every test you pass he will show Favor upon you. Guess what even if you don’t pass he still we show his Grace and Mercy he is not like humans he is King of Kings.

No matter how you fall just remember to get back up. I don’t like to fall but if I haven’t I would not know the things I know now. I know the power of getting back up again and trying 10, 20, 30 times harder. Some of us may need a little push in life I am still growing and living I am not perfect neither anyone else.

I always say “it’s not how you started its how you finish”.

The things that we go through in life gets the best of us.

People wonder why you smile one day and not similing the next.

It’s all in the mind that sucks all the excitement away from you.

Why? Your mind is thinking about all those past due bills how? Where? Who? Can? When?

Example: If you just receive a promotion on your job.

All your mind is on those bills your mind is like that’s great and all but what are you going to do now!

Then your mind will not let up because then the mind start listing the bills like you don’t know.

Now you can’t have a real smile on your face in front of your co workers because in the inside you are falling in pieces.

Pray and never stop praying get to know God by reading the bible and knowing the truth about how much he loves us and how much he cares for us.